Jakarta is a very underrated city in Asia and it gets a bad rep because it is a Muslim country. Jakarta has a mixed crowd. The nightlife is mostly concentrated in three areas: For good, clean fun you are most likely to go to Jalan Jaksa where you can find a couple of bars, discos and also some freelancers just in case there are sleazebags who would like to hook up in one of these bars.
Jalan Jaksa is the backpacking district of Jakarta. Expect to see foreigners or bule in one of any of these bars having a drink or two. Cocktail and Friends — this is a popular place for young crowds usually students but there are also a mix of expats and foreign tourists during the weekend. They are open from 6pm and can stay open up until 3 am or longer especially during the weekends.
This is not a place to hook up with prostitutes. You might meet a local girl but that would be quite difficult. You can be able to find a sexy local girl if you are lucky to bang with at this place. Dragonfly — if you go to Jakarta, you might have been probably told about Dragonfly where you can be able to party all night long.
This place tends to be full especially during the weekends. You can also be able to find hookers in this place looking for rich expats. Entrance fee is quite high at , without a drink. They also have a strict door policy that only allows you to enter if you are dressed well. Make sure that you also bring an ID. Colosseum — another nightclub that is famous on this side of town. They host great events and parties with the best sound and lighting system.
It can also be pretty expensive as the entrance fee costs , with a free drink. A lot of people here take drugs so if you see locals in a zombie-like state, that is why. Sports Bar — If you are a sports fan, you can hang out with the same crowd at B. It is located at Shangri-La Hotel but you can seldom find hookers in this area.
These are the places that are absolutely ayam-free working girls. Like what was mentioned earlier, sex in Jakarta is not as tolerated compared to Bangkok or Pattaya.
However, sex clubs in Jakarta is prevalent. There are several sex clubs where you can be able to find and hook up with great looking local women. Terminal 2 — located at the 2 nd floor of Classic Hotel. The area is quite big enough to accommodate customers and still feel comfortable. There are couches where the women are sitting waiting for a customer for the night.
They also have nude shows so you can see these girls grinding their ass on the dancefloor. One reason why they are famous is because women in this place are young in their 20s and all are not bad looking. You can just hang out with the girl but make sure to buy her ladies drinks. If you want to bang her, you can take her downstairs for a short time and that would cost about , Rupiah.
If you feel that one girl is not enough, you can add another girl into your party for another , Rupiah. There are dance clubs where you can have a drink or two and hook up with a girl or prostitute or whatever. But on the 7 th floor you can find their spa. There are women sitting on the area where you get to choose which one you want to have a good time with.
They are actually seated according to their nationalities — Thais, Chinese, Indonesians, and even Russians. Once you have chosen a girl, you can enjoy a dip with her in the swimming pool. You will then be escorted to a private room where you can have your massage with happy ending. You will also find retired Thai working girls in this place. Malioboro — this place is not too hard to miss. It is one of the biggest clubs located on Jalan Gadjah Madah.
Dance club is on the first floor and there are lots of working girls of different sorts. Go up the next floor and you will find the strip club. Buy these women a pair of shots and they will take their bikini tops off and let you suck their tits and grind their ass on your boner.
There are also private rooms where you can be able to enjoy great sex with these women in Jakarta. Prices for these women depend on where they are from. Local girls cost about , Rupiah while Russian girls cost about 2,, However, it is still worth it because women working here are slim, young and doable.
Kings Cross — another one of the biggest entertainment complex in Jakarta. They have different types of entertainment for men on each floor just like the rest of these establishments. The subject who is truly loyal to the Chief Magistrate will neither advise nor submit to arbitrary measures.
Welcome to Sex Qs, a weekly column where The Globe's Amberly McAteer seeks answers to your sex questions, talking to sexperts and regular Canadians alike.
Last week, I told a reader seeking sex advice to "never, ever — ever! He had been given the "green light" from his wife, who has admitted to a low libido, to have casual, non-monogamous sex.
I urged him to try harder with his wife, but, if he had to, seek a casual arrangement with a willing party on the Internet. The contrarian responses were fast and furious: If he's looking for sex without the emotions, the e-mails and online comments and phone calls argued, a professional, monetary transaction is the way to go. Everyone has a talent!
I had not a clue this would cause an uproar. I thought most people were on the same page — I mean, we're talking about reducing someone's daughter to a paid means for sexual enjoyment. So I felt it important to clarify, to dig deeper into these pro-prostitution beliefs that had rattled me for days. This debate isn't about the criminality of sex work, a heavy and complex subject filled with grey areas — that's a matter for the Supreme Court of Canada, which is currently battling all sides of the debate.
At issue is what values embody worthwhile sex, and my philosophy is this: Whether it happens during a one-night stand, a summer fling, a friends-with-benefit arrangement or a life-long marriage, there must be a base human connection — two willing, interested humans agreeing to a good time — and a special, intimate experience. Stephen de Wit, a sexologist I talked to last week about what makes good sex and with a PhD in human sexuality, he knows a thing or two about good sex. Even a casual, Internet-brokered one-night stand would be good for my reader in need, de Wit says.
So putting a monetary value to this encounter, like getting your carpets cleaned or your nails done, removes all the fun. She's not there because she finds you attractive, charming or seductive, so what's the point? The reader may not be looking for love — but he is looking for good, mind-blowing sex. I've never been into a strip club, for related reasons: I'd likely end up talking the ladies into attending night school, or walking my dog for a nominal fee.
Yes, I write this from my middle-class pedestal. I've never fallen on life-threatening hard times, but I know this: Women, every single one of them, are worth more than their bodies.
In an ideal world, everyone would see that. But clearly, I'm a newbie in this world. In the interest of exploring all sides of the debate, I tracked down a friend-of-a-Facebook-friend who agreed to talk to me about his experience with prostitutes — or "prosties" as he called them — and why he frequents a Toronto brothel. Tim, a divorced year-old from Mississauga who hasn't had free sex in over six months, met me at a pub.
I was shocked at how easy it was to find someone with personal experience and didn't know exactly what to ask. Thankfully, he wanted to share.
He admits that "regular sex" would be a better option, but says it's difficult to meet people in his circles. Still, "doing it with someone I see a lot … that'd be better I guess. He tells me about his lost love, his ex-wife. His eyes light up when he talks about their honeymoon heat — but they darken again when the conversation turns.
He starts ranting about one lady in particular at the "house" he frequents. His emotional attachment to her is clear "she's pretty and really sweet, you'd like her, I swear" and he genuinely thinks she cares about him.